The Black Day

For the last few years I'm very much disturbed on this day..Sep 13th is a black day..because few years ago on the same day fate took the backbone of our family away from us without any pre information....We three were really shocked when the doctor said he's no more..when he left us he gave a duty to us ...for amma...it's to take care of us and to make us stand in our own particular foot...for us it's to take care of our amma till our last breath ...we three are insanely missing you in our every moment of our life....these were the last words of him..."Dears...don't let a chance to amma to cry and bow her head infront of others..Make an oppurtunity to tell others that she's a succesful mother.."...Amma..We'll never let you to bow your head before anyone and we'll conquer everything we dreams off..

The BIG grandfather

Aradhya and Navya are very lucky to have a grandfather like him..These words are truly emotional and these are very special too because these words depicts the love and care that Amitabh Bachchan Sir is having towards them…This is a silent message to all the girls out there!Few points are really striking and I love the way he pointed the society as “Don’t let anyone make you behave that the length of your skirt is the measure of your character”.

I’m hereby attaching the photos of the letter  which the legend himself shared in the social media …..

“You both carry a very valuable legacy on your tender shoulders – Aaradhya, the legacy of your pardadaji , Dr Harivansh Rai Bachchan…and Navya, the legacy of your pardadaji , Shri H P Nanda….
Both your pardadaji ‘ s gave your present surnames celebrated fame, dignity and recognition !
Both of you may be a Nanda or a Bachchan, but you are also girls…women !
And because you are women people will force their thinking, their boundaries on you.
They will tell you how to dress, how to behave, who you can meet and where you can go.
Don’t live in the shadows of people’s judgement. Make your own choices in the light of your own wisdom.
Don’t let anyone make you believe that the length of your skirt is a measure of your character.
Don’t let anyone’s opinion of who you should be friends with, dictate who you will be friends with.
Don’t get married for any other reason other than you want to get married.
People will talk. They shall say some terrible things. But that doesn’t mean you have to listen to everyone. Never ever worry about – log kya kahenge
At the end of the day, you are the only one who will face the consequences of your actions, so don’t let other people make your decisions for you.Navya – the privilege your name, your surname offers you, will not protect you from the difficulties you will face because you ‘re a woman.Aaradhya – by the time you see and understand this, I may well not be around. But I think what I am saying today shall still be relevant.This may be a difficult, difficult world to be a woman. But I believe that it is women like you that will change that. It may not be easy, setting your own boundaries, making your own choices, rising above people ‘s judgement. But YOU !…you can set an example for women everywhere.Do this and you would have done more than I have ever done, and it will be my honor to be known not as Amitabh Bachchan, but as your grandfather !!

 

With all my love
Your ….Dadaji ….your Nana”

The mischarged society

I am ashamed to see these era women fighting for things without knowing why a particular tradition is being followed. Do they mean to say that women who followed it before are mad??? Never mock a tradition in the name of women equality and gender bias..

Today I really wondered when I red the post of a celebrity on  social media about the Sabarimala case..Yes..I totally agree we all have the right to speak,but we must be aware about the topic we speak.

Highlighting a point  of my friend  that has mentioned in the article.

“Sabarimala is a place where there is no discrimination based on caste, creed, religion, language etc.. It is a real tribute to the Indian secularism and harmony. For every temple there are a set of rules to be followed in accordance to the diety and also considering the historical & mythological aspects of the temple. In this case the diety Lord Ayyappa is a Naishtika Brahmachari (celebrate) as a result if which we have these rules. There are many other Ayyappa temples like Kulathoorpuzha, Aryankavu etc where women of all age groups are allowed as the rules in those permits that. And I am damn sure that the majority of so called feminists and others fighting for the entry of women of that particular age group neither know about the deity nor the mythological and historical aspects of Sabarimala. It was the Supreme court that made the non – entrance of women of this particular age group strict on 1991. Even now lets wait for the court’s verdict.”